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June 2013

Jun 19, 201350,816 notes
“Airports see more sincere kisses than wedding halls. The walls of hospitals have heard more prayers than the walls of churches.” —(via grizzlytales)
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Jun 19, 20137,552 notes

skepticalavenger:

thefoxinsideandout:

I love it when atheists say OMG….like I thought you didn’t believe in God? Haha

Exactly.  You note how we only say OMG about things we find unbelievable?

Jun 19, 2013120 notes
“[Tw:Rape, victim blaming] Do you think it was fair, what [the rapists] got? They did something stupid, but I don’t know. I’m not blaming the girl, but if you’re a 16-year-old and you’re drunk like that, your parents should teach you—don’t take drinks from other people. She’s 16, why was she that drunk where she doesn’t remember? It could have been much worse. She’s lucky. Obviously I don’t know, maybe she wasn’t a virgin, but she shouldn’t have put herself in that position, unless they slipped her something, then that’s different.” —Serena Williams on the Steubenville rape victim (via kaliem)
Jun 19, 20131 note
“The fact that I’m silent doesn’t mean I have nothing to say.” —Jonathan Carroll  (via anditslove)
Jun 3, 201351,268 notes
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Jun 2, 20136,899 notes
“I’d write love poems to the parts of yourself you cannot stand.” —Andrea Gibson  (via rabbrakha)
Jun 2, 201329,417 notes
“The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness”.” —

Lindy West (via lavenderlabia)

Whoa! Holly fuckin’!…

Yikes!

(via freshoutoffucksgoddamnit)
Although even when it is non-consensual it is still sometimes called “sluttiness” anyway.

(via wifwolf)

Jun 2, 201324,018 notes
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Jun 2, 2013177,658 notes

sublime-sweatpants:

Why doesn’t anyone discuss how society’s perceived ownership of the female body extends into parents who dictate everything their daughters do?

Not letting your daughters express themselves in how they dress, talk, wear their hair, or whether or not they wear makeup just gives them the idea, from an extremely young age, that their body is not their own and they must please others by making it look how they view best.
Learn that before you have children.

Jun 2, 201327,208 notes

sparxflame:

i feel like there is a fundamental misunderstanding going on when people say “tumblr hates vegans”

no, tumblr hates assholes

vegans are people who choose not to eat meat, fish, or dairy

assholes are people who call non-vegans murderers and tell them they’ll rot in hell for their evil ways

can you see the difference

Jun 2, 201325,679 notes

May 2013

You should follow my new blog :)

what is your new blog?

May 30, 2013
Positive alternative to “the walk of shame”:

rainbow-laces:

lesbianese:

whiskey-memories:

“Got Laid Parade”

“Stride of Pride”

“Post-Cock Walk”

“Just-Touched-A-Butt Strut”

“Took Off My Pants Dance”

“G-Spot Trot”

“Had Fun With the Clit, Time to Split”

<3 <3 <3

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“Just-Touched-a-Butt Strut”

May 26, 201374,760 notes
“Someday, someone is going to look at you like you’re the best thing in the world.” —(via realquiet)
May 26, 2013128,477 notes
“The assumption that bisexuality is a softer way of coming out feels rather insulting to all the bisexuals who experience hate and prejudice, but sometimes, particularly for women, there’s an element of truth to it. Not because homophobes don’t mind same sex relationships if one partner is bi, but because they think we’re a joke, not a threat.

Our society still promotes the belief that anyone who can choose between men and women will, in the end, choose a man for a life partner.”
—Jessie J, Cynthia Nixon and female bisexuality - The F Word (via rainbowbreathingbisexual)
May 26, 2013302 notes
  • boy: shit baby you're so wet already
  • girl: that's actually just vaginal discharge and my body is cleansing itself from bacteria and dead cells to prevent infection and to maintain optimal reproductive health i'm not even all that turned on right now and i would prefer to go get some food or something
May 26, 2013155,458 notes
“

— Hey, hippie girl, you Mexican? On both sides?
— Front & back, I say.
— You sure don’t look Mexican.

A part of me wants to kick their ass. A part of me feels sorry for their stupid ignorant selves. But if you’ve never been farther south than Nuevo Laredo, how the hell would you know what Mexicans are supposed to look like, right?

There are the green-eyed Mexicans. The rich blond Mexicans. The Mexicans w/the faces of Arab sheiks. The Jewish Mexicans. The big-footed-as-a-German Mexicans. The leftover-French Mexicans. The chaparrito compact Mexicans. The Tarahumara tall-as-a-desert-saguaro Mexicans. The Mediterranean Mexicans. The Mexicans w/Tunisian eyebrows. The negrito Mexicans of the double coasts. The Chinese Mexicans. The curly-haired, freckled-faced, red-headed Mexicans. The Lebanese Mexicans. Look, I don’t know what you’re talking about when you say I don’t look Mexican. I am Mexican. Even though I was born on the U.S. side of the border.

”
—

Sandra Cisneros “Caramelo” (via honeybrown)

SNAPS

There is no one way to look like Mexican

(via piccolaluce)

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May 23, 20131,543 notes
“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, employer, romantic interest, friend or new acquaintance. You don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.” — Diane Koepke (via theladycheeky)
May 23, 2013159 notes
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A Seattle Times review of a recent Madonna tour stop praises the artist for “rocking us as a feminist icon” and applauds the singer for her brazen sexuality: “stripping down to a bra, then pulling her pants down below a thong and baring her cheeks to the Key [Arena].” Even the Guardian’s Freeman, in an ode to Like a Prayer, the writer’s favorite album, speaks longingly about Madonna’s midriff-baring ’80s fashion and the video to the title track, which “featured a woman named Madonna apparently giving a blow job to a black Jesus.”

Through a career that has included crotch-grabbing, nudity, BDSM, Marilyn Monroe fetishizing, and a 1992 book devoted to sex, Madonna has been viewed as a feminist provocateur, pushing the boundaries of acceptable femininity. But Beyoncé’s use of her body is criticized as thoughtless and without value beyond male titillation, providing a modern example of the age-old racist juxtaposition of animalistic black sexuality vs. controlled, intentional, and civilized white sexuality.

”
—All Hail the Queen? | Bitch Media (via npr)
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May 22, 2013111,618 notes
“Under the current ‘tyranny of slenderness’ women are forbidden to become large or massive; they must take up as little space as possible. The very contours of a woman’s body takes on as she matures - the fuller breasts and rounded hips - have become distateful. The body by which a woman feels herself judged and which by rigorous discipline she must try to assume is the body of early adolescence, slight and unformed, a body lacking flesh or substance, a body in whose very contours the image of immaturity has been inscribed. The requirement that a woman maintain a smooth and hairless skin carries further the theme of inexperience, for an infantilized face must accompany her infantilized body, a face that never ages or furrows its brow in thought. The face of the ideally feminine woman must never display the marks of character, wisdom, and experience that we so admire in men.” —Sandra Lee Bartky, Foucault, Femininity, and the Modernization of Patriarchal Power (via sociophilia)
May 22, 20134,828 notes
Story time, Dreadlocks and Cultural Appropriation

racismschool:

During the time I’ve written for this blog, I have made many posts that I later wished I’d worded differently. There are situations I wish I’d handled differently and there are topics I wish I’d learned a bit more about before speaking on them. With all that said, there is only one post that I’ve ever written that I am truly ashamed of. Not it’s message but it’s delivery. It is the only post that I wish I could make disappear so that I could rewrite it properly. The post on the cultural appropriation of dreadlocks. The point and purpose of the post was correct. However, the delivery, history and general forming of reference, not so much. I won’t be linking to the original post but it is still available on this blog if you are so inclined to find it. In the meantime, it’s time to correct that mistake of a post.

THE HISTORY OF DREADLOCKS

The very name, “Dreadlock” is attached to a vile and storied history. The name is traced back to days when enslaved people were being carted across the ocean. When they arrived, their hair was matted with blood, feces, urine, sweat, tears, dirt and time. When the captors watched them walk, crawl or be carried off the ships, they referred to the hair of slaves as “Dreadful.” This was a common word used to describe the locks that had formed during the many trips. The term dreadlock became prevalent to describing the hair formation.  

The term was later reclaimed with the uprising of Rastafarian culture. Dreadlocks were a source of pride in one’s history, a symbol of laying down material and capitalist pursuits and a way to thumb disdain at white culture. The very name or rather it’s shortened version, locks, is a source of great pride for a history that may never be truthfully told.

CULTURAL APPROPRIATION OF DREADLOCKS

The most common comment of those who want to appropriate locks is, “Every culture had dreadlocks.” This is false. Any reference made to other cultures is about matting of hair. Sometimes in a lock formation, sometimes not. However, there are no other cultures that had “Dreadlocks.” 

With minor research, one can find that the matting of hair in other cultures has never been, “Dreadlocks.” For example, the Irish had several names for their matted hair. Glibs, Glibbes and Gleebs were among the most common. In India, matted tufts of hair were labeled, Jata. Making the statement that “Every culture had dreadlocks” isn’t just factually incorrect, it’s disrespectful to the very history that bound each enslaved person’s lock in blood. The history of the “Dread” in dreadlock, is so vastly different than just the simple matting of hair.

May 22, 20132,034 notes
BREAST (MAMMARY)

Field Marks: Two, non-vital. Peaks of flesh on the anterior of the torso, potentially varying in size. Situated opposite the shoulder blades, upon the breastbone. A bone that, if the skin is stretched, reveals what holds the heart. 

Description: You were without them, once. You were without them until they grew. You were without them until they imposed themselves upon you, until boys snapped your training bra, until you learned to live with this weight and not because you wanted to. 

from “A Field Guide to Female Anatomy” by Anne Valente. Published in Ninth Letter, vol. 10, issue no.1 Spring/Summer 2013. Pages 69-74.

May 22, 2013
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April 2013

Apr 25, 20131,058 notes
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ifoundalittlepieceofsunshine:

ifyoucarryonthisway:

do you ever just wonder about early 2000s fashion

image

ive come to the conclusion they are sims

Apr 22, 201380,331 notes
“

[CW: cissexist assumptions, discussion of rape and suicide] Feminists do not want you to lose custody of your children. The assumption that women are naturally better caregivers is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not like commercials in which bumbling dads mess up the laundry and competent wives have to bustle in and fix it. The assumption that women are naturally better housekeepers is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to have to make alimony payments. Alimony is set up to combat the fact that women have been historically expected to prioritize domestic duties over professional goals, thus minimizing their earning potential if their “traditional” marriages end. The assumption that wives should make babies instead of money is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want anyone to get raped in prison. Permissiveness and jokes about prison rape are part of rape culture, which is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want anyone to be falsely accused of rape. False rape accusations discredit rape victims, which reinforces rape culture, which is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be lonely and we do not hate “nice guys.” The idea that certain people are inherently more valuable than other people because of superficial physical attributes is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to have to pay for dinner. We want the opportunity to achieve financial success on par with men in any field we choose (and are qualified for), and the fact that we currently don’t is part of patriarchy. The idea that men should coddle and provide for women, and/or purchase their affections in romantic contexts, is condescending and damaging and part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be maimed or killed in industrial accidents, or toil in coal mines while we do cushy secretarial work and various yarn-themed activities. The fact that women have long been shut out of dangerous industrial jobs (by men, by the way) is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to commit suicide. Any pressures and expectations that lower the quality of life of either gender are part of patriarchy. The fact that depression is characterized as an effeminate weakness, making men less likely to seek treatment, is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be viewed with suspicion when you take your child to the park (men frequently insist that this is a serious issue, so I will take them at their word). The assumption that men are insatiable sexual animals, combined with the idea that it’s unnatural for men to care for children, is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be drafted and then die in a war while we stay home and iron stuff. The idea that women are too weak to fight or too delicate to function in a military setting is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want women to escape prosecution on legitimate domestic violence charges, nor do we want men to be ridiculed for being raped or abused. The idea that women are naturally gentle and compliant and that victimhood is inherently feminine is part of patriarchy.

Feminists hate patriarchy. We do not hate you.

”
—Lindy West, If I Admit That ‘Hating Men’ Is a Thing, Will You Stop Turning It Into a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy? (via lavenderlabia)
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“High school, it seems, has changed. It has become competitive. Young men and women — 13 to 18 years old — must work more or less tirelessly to ensure their spot at a college deemed worthy to them and their families. So rather than living their adolescent lives — lives brimming with desires and vitality, with vim, vigor, and brewing lust — these kids are working at old age homes, cramming for tests, popping Adderall just to make the literal and proverbial grade. And for what? So they can go to a school that puts them in debt for the rest of their lives. School has become a great vehicle of capitalism: it quashes the revolution implicit in adolescence while simultaneously fomenting perpetual indebtedness.” —Daniel Coffeen (via setbabiesonfire)
Apr 21, 201373,900 notes
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